Guest Post: Take a Closer Look

I think there are a lot of misperceptions about people with disabilities. Unless you spend a lot of

time with adults and children with special needs, you can miss what a blessing these people are

to our families and our community.

Brittany and child It’s true that they struggle. They may be clumsy, unable to walk or talk, and may have little to no

understanding of social graces and personal space. They may not be able to hold down a job,

may require full-time care, and may have to take a lot of different medications to manage their

health issues. They may need a lot of therapy and surgeries. They may look and sound

different. It can be off-putting, if you don’t know what’s beyond the surface.

More often than not, what I find when I get to know these “disabled” people is people who are

much less disabled than it first appears. Despite their struggles, they are friendly,

compassionate, and genuinely concerned about others who seem upset or in pain. They never

fail to show me unconditional acceptance and approval. They don’t even know me, but they

choose to believe the best about me and accept me just as I am. They never forget a face, even

if they can’t remember my name. They brighten my day every time I interact with them.

Making time to take a closer look, to spend some time, and to make an investment in an adult or

child with special needs is a rewarding experience for you both. Rather than moving past in a

hurry the next time one of them approaches you for a hug, take a chance and return it. I think

you’ll be glad you did.Ms. Diana and Zane

Bio: Jennifer Janes is both a volunteer at Runnin’ WJ Ranch and the parent of a child in the

program. She writes about her faith, family, and special needs at


One thought on “Guest Post: Take a Closer Look

  1. Pingback: A Confession, an Invitation, and NaNoWriMo - Jennifer A. Janes

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in: Logo

You are commenting using your account. Log Out /  Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out /  Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out /  Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out /  Change )


Connecting to %s